McCain on Family, Fatherhood and Sending a Son to War

John McCain

I was interested in reading about John McCain’s views of sending his own son to war. I have lived through watching and waiting while my son served 15 months in a violent, savage neighborhood in Baghdad, Iraq and will probably have to do it again some time down the road. Since John McCain is, in all likelihood, the next Commander in Chief of the military, I want to know how he views sending our young men and women to war.

One of the reasons I’m excited about McCain’s candidacy is that I know he supports our military and will make sure our men and women do not go into battle without proper cause, support and supplies. Regardless of the politics of it, he has been willing to be open about his views of the necessity of defeating islamofascists ‘over there’ instead of waiting for another attack here with our heads in the sand.

Then there are the politics of an unpopular war, which seem to many observers to be hobbling his campaign. As a result, McCain has taken pains to give reporters at every stop his very specific assessment of the conduct of the war, which he authorized and continues to endorse. “The Bush administration made every conceivable mistake you could have made—military, political, even economic. [I would have done] the opposite of what they did, particularly having more boots on the ground, not allowing the looting, setting up a de-Baathification program immediately, and moving more quickly to form a government.”

Since almost no one in the top echelon of the Bush administration had any active military experience, I ask McCain if the president—who is commander-in-chief, after all—should be required to have some active service, perhaps even combat duty. “It would be helpful,” he says, “but I have to hasten to add that some of our great presidents did not have a wealth of military experience. Look at Abraham Lincoln and Franklin Roosevelt and Ronald Reagan. What would be helpful is if more members of Congress served in the military so they would understand the challenges that the young men and women are facing.”

McCain’s sons are both serving the country. His older son, Jack, is currently at the Naval Academy. His younger son, Jimmy, is a Marine deployed to Iraq. McCain’s entire life has been a testament to duty. Duty and service are not about pretty words and theories, but are about action and sacrifice. Its about serving a cause bigger than yourself.

John McCain has taught his sons that duty “is serving a cause greater than you,” honor “is the ability to do the right thing when nobody else knows,” and “serving a cause greater than yourself is the most ennobling of all avocations.” And now his sons are men. Cindy McCain says: “Both of my boys are grown up, and now one is really doing what a man does—and that is going off to war.”

Its understandable that McCain is reluctant to talk about his son, Jimmy, who is currently deployed in Iraq. Considering what happened to McCain as the son of the Chief of Naval Operations while he was held in the Hanoi Hilton, I’m sure he doesn’t want his own son to be put in the position of a being a prized target for the enemy.

Still, it’s clear from watching McCain that Jimmy—and what may lie in store for him during his deployment in Iraq—weighs heavily on his mind. McCain says he won’t discuss Jimmy’s deployment, but it also seems he can’t not talk about him. So sometimes McCain will bring up his son unexpectedly, out of the blue. “You know,” McCain says, greeting the limo driver, a man he has known from past campaign trips, “my son Jimmy is in the Marines now. He’s doing great. Yes, sir, Jimmy’s doing great. Just great.”

Yeah, I understand that.

Read the article, it gives a lot of insight into the man who will be President.


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  1. Beth C. UNITED STATES says:

    These are the best posts of all about John McCain-those that come from you, as a parent of a soldier who’s served in Iraq. As far as I’m concerned, that is what this election is all about-doing right by the men and women who serve. It’s the LEAST those of us back home can do, especially since we (those of us who aren’t Gold or Blue Star family members) have had to sacrifice absolutely nothing during the last six and a half years post-9/11. America is at the freaking mall while men and women sacrifice everything overseas, and we’ve been squabbling over who’s a more “perfect” ideological conservative? And talk radio ideologues have been actually talking about supporting Hillary? It’s appalling.

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